28 Nov HOW DEEPLY YOUR ACCEPT YOUR WOMEN DIRECTLY IMPACTS HOW MUCH SHE OPENS UP TO YOU SEXUALLY
The level of acceptance received from a man has a direct correlation to my desire to open fully in pleasure.
We all have a really deep ability to love, although for me, and perhaps for you, it is directly impacted by the level of acceptance shown by a man.
If I show my self entirely to someone and they shame, reject, withdraw or do pretty much anything other than hold space and show acceptance/love a light goes out in me towards them.
I feel a restriction internally.
I find it hard to open fully to him sexually.
How a man shows up to me effects the level of depth of love he receives from me.
So men ~
I challenge you to notice, if your woman is not sexually surrendering to you. If you notice she is not orgasmic. If she does not get lost in her pleasure and open her body to you.
Notice how accepting you are of her.
Do you dismiss her emotions?
Do you shame her insecurities?
Do you leave her when she is most fearful, most fragile?
Do you label her ‘crazy’ ‘cray cray’ ‘needy’ or any variation of this?
Do you roll your eyes at her expressing herself?
Do you tune out?
Equally, try to consider what you are rejecting, withdrawing from within you.
What parts of yourself are you hiding from?
We can accept others fully once we have accepted ourselves.
And please remember
~ Acceptance is at the core of love.
Self acceptance is the ultimate act of loving oneself.
Acceptance of your partner is what being in a relationship is about.
Acceptance is unconditional love.
When you and your partner are loved unconditionally all fears of not being enough, or loveable or worthy melt away.
It is the true meaning of every #relationshipgoal hashtag. Not the overly filtered crap on social media.
It is what we are all striving for whether you are aware of it or not.