22 Dec PROJECTING YOUR EGO SELF ONTO OTHERS IN THE HOPE THAT THEY WILL ENABLE YOU TO STAY THE SAME
In relationships / partnerships with others this seems to be a very large growth area for allot of my clients.
Projecting your ‘stuff’ onto your partner.
Making it their problem. Telling them they need to change so you can feel ________ .
Keeping score on your partner.
This causes so much pain and the person projecting is literally giving their power away, victimising their self rendering them helpless to the situation. Instead, going within to look at where they need to communicate more openly and honestly and what needs healing.
In relationship with another, there is only you and your mirror (partner) who will reflect back to you all parts of yourself you need to heal.
They will also mirror back to you all parts of yourself that are beautiful.
If you are expressing yourself by saying:
If my partner did ______ then I would feel ______
If only they’d change ______ I can then be ______
I encourage you to start to explore yourself on a deeper level and perhaps what you need to heal. Consider getting help, a coach or therapist, work with who you feel comfortable with.
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