WHEN YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE WHO IS NOT YOUR PARTNER

WHEN YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE WHO IS NOT YOUR PARTNER

Lusting after someone else whilst in relationship/married is perfectly natural.

Marriage does not mean you that once the paper is signed you will stop all primal desire to experiment and/or experience new and exciting encounters. Sexual or otherwise.

We are, after all promiscuous by nature.

It is however what you do with this desire is what matters and will either have an immense impact to you, your partner and the course of your relationship.

Monogamy is a man made concept, the beauty of being a human being is that we can learn to adapt.

And adapt we have tried to do.

Although I feel monogamy is evolving.

It is less about ‘one person for life’ and more about ‘one person at a time’

Where I would like monogamy to get to is:

Primary partnerships.

Cheating is less of an ultimate betrayal of trust but a conversation that is not off the table.

Variety is encouraged.

Honesty is encouraged.

Communication.

It is unfortunate that even whilst monogamy / marriage is still considered a life goal, it does leave many broken, hurt and confused as to how you even do this? How does it work?

L xx

Lauren Blundell
lauren@laurenblundell.com